I have been playing with bass (subs) and integrating with main speakers and understanding what is going on with phase, Time alignment and so on for a long time.
In my experience a good starting point is to accept that a lot of measurements can help, but not listing can easily allow you to have nice graphs and mediocre sound.
1. The impact from a low frequency pressure wave needs to align with the higher frequencies associated with the sound, if you increase the bass too much, even if aligned correctly it can sound too heavy and almost soft and perception of speed and timing becomes a question by the listener. Without the low frequency support the bass has no weight, mass and realism but some will say 'tight' or clean, they mean 'weak' !
2. You need to look at and think about decay, RT60's and how you room is and the nodes. Obviously that is the inherent to the size of the room and seating positions. Acoustic treatment does help above 300 Hz, much harder and much more intrusive at say 30Hz. BUT dealing with the energy by DSP and EQ can help significantly. You need to get below 700ms at 20-50Hz ideally IMO. Bass boom isn't your equipment (most of the time) it's your room
3. Low frequency transmission through the floor can add a realistic visceral addition and add more tactility to the bass. It's a balance, who walks out or complains at theatres or stages with wooden floors or complains about the transmission of energy in a concert ? It happens in real life it can happen at home too, but heavy resonances are not what you want.
4. Ive never liked isolating the speaker by allowing damping and floating so any energy from the driver is lost pushing the speaker back successfully and a lot of these expensive speaker stands are expensive jewellery a lot of the time. EXPERIMENT ! You can find a spike increases or decreases the sound transmission - could be good , could be bad, etc, etc. The expensive 'isolating' science solution may well have provided a solution to one facet, but was that a problem, did it actually solve it and does it sound better for it !!!
5. The idea that you want your room not to behave like a room is mistaken , Floyde Toole's research has discussed this for years. It's removing the problem areas and not the room that you want to do. Getting decay times right, dealing with diffusion and absorption and listening to how things sound, speaker position, seating position etc, etc is the answer
6. There are preferences as well, my view on this which might be wrong ! Is we rarely listen to live music and complain about the sound, unless there is a fundamental error of-course . Live is live and it usually sounds great, it's how far short your home system falls and what we are sensitive too that dictates preferences. For me if the energy drive and dynamics are reduced I'm already turned off and no amount of resolution, 'detail' and imaging will compensate. For others the compromise will be different etc