A few things here:
I don't think they were specifically designed to be heard from 8 to 10 feet, either, Mark. Did you Def Techs come with instructions telling you how far to sit from them? I think there is a point at which the sound of any given speaker's drivers will cohere, making them sound like a point source and not a stack of individual drivers. That point is very close with small two-way speakers, farther away with big 3 and 4-way floor-standers, can be farther still with some horns, but it's just common sense. I can't recall ever seing it published as a specification.
Do my speakers sound "a whole lot more natural" from across the room. I dunno, that's a pretty relative set of terms you have there. The are coherent from a meter or less. At near field proximity the pinpoint imaging is very precise. It's not "natural" because instruments and voices in normal performance venues don't image like that. Also - and I've discussed this before - when you're listening that close, the phantom center (if your speakers image well enough to create a really solid one) will literally move back and forth in the sound stage with the movements of your head. It's pretty weird at first, but you adjust, and if you really enjoy pinpoint imaging, as I do, it's worth putting up with for those times you're just listening and not moving around. But it's a pretty narrow sweet spot, to say the least. In that regard, the image "better" from greater distances. Pro monitors sold specifically as "near field" have the same weakness, or strength. It's the nature of listening that close and that toed-in.
Is near field listening like giant headphones? Yes and no. In a good room it will deliver most of the detail of a good headphone rig, but headphones image in and around your head. Near field listening images horizontally, vertically and dimensionally (depth), just like bigger speakers in bigger spaces. They just do it in a smaller space, and typically with a lot fewer room issues.
In any case, my listening experience isn't something you need to concern yourself with unless you're thinking of building a near field rig. Your Def Techs are bi-polar. Regardless of scale, they will never, under any circumstances, image the way near field listening does. Nothing wrong with omni-directional, mind you. If I were putting together a second rig, that's probably the way I'd go, but it is a completely different approach.
Tim
Tim,
As we agree on these points I can only post a figure from F. Toole "Sound Reproduction" that illustrates you first point, showing that these distances can only be estimated approximately from speaker dimensions.