I appreciate your forthrightness, Peter.
First, let me say that I was not attempting to take a poll here. I was only trying to suggest the idea and I think it would help some if the poll were taken anonymously.
About that polling question I suggested, it was intended to list one's single very best experience with a playback system. By your responses, are you implying here that your playback system is your best experience with any playback system? Nothing wrong with that. But usually a response to this type of question is more of a one time unforgettable event. Something like, "I heard the XYZ system at CES 2013 (or at somebody's home) playing my favorite music and I couldn't believe the level of musicality I was hearing."
With regard to "the absolute sound", I think it was Harry Pearson who came up with the concept. And I think that's what it's intended to be, a concept. Simply a general well-seated audience perspective of a live unamplified performance occurring in an acoustically reasonable space like a concert or recording hall. In fact, I speculate Pearson or whoever came up with "the absolute sound" concept was intended to weed out performance comparisons like the one you provided in your #1 example above.
But your responses are good as they help open up a can of worms (that needs to be opened) if such a polling question were presented.
I have gone to three audio shows, and heard many demos at dealerships. And I have heard about twenty systems belonging to fellow audiophiles. I would like to hear many more.
For small scale chamber and solo instruments, I have two reference systems: mine (listed below) and a demo I heard at Goodwins High End in Boston of the Magico Q3 playing analog on a Basis turntable.
For larger scale performances, my reference system is fellow member Madfloyd's current analogue system based on Magico M Pro speakers and Pass XA.8 and XS amplification. Two recent listening sessions of orchestral music were breathtaking.
For absolute best system I have ever heard: RMAF 2010 Ray Kimber's Isomic demo using a four channel Pass Labs and Sony speaker system with his special digital software in a huge room. The performance of a male chorus in a stone cathedral was utterly convincing.
I am sure there are many better systems out there and I am hoping to one day embark on a tour of systems around the US. I have rarely been impressed at audio shows or most dealerships. Again, I find it very difficult to narrow down a choice of "best" when so much is dependent on scale and the complexity of the music. And I have found very few systems that can do it all in a convincing matter. They usually excel at one type of music or performance.