Peter, you still at this stuff?!?
Everyone has their own conceptual mental model of how audio works - it's up to the individual's imagination to get their favorite speakers, amps, cables, footers, tubes, fuses, etc. As we discussed before, many people imagine that when they plug in their vacuum cleaner, the electricity flows like water from the wall into the appliance through the little black tube of the electrical cord. But that's not reality.
Here's another example - a computer spreadsheet program: people imagine that a spreadsheet scrolls new cells into view when they click the scrollbar. But nothing of the sort actually happens. There is no sheet of cells out there, but a tightly packed data structure of values, with various pointers between them, from which the application synthesizes a new image to display on the screen in real time.
The reality is that people form mental models that are simpler than reality. If using imagination helps enjoy the hobby, it's great. But let's accept reality that high end audio doesn't sound real. And, unfortunately, the emotions that result from listening to great stereo may approach real, but are not quite the same as real... Fun, but "real" only to those who imagined that system and others who happen to share that taste.