Following this discussion with interest. My question to WLGMuzza would be, looking at his phrase "the first set that came with the amplifier only making it to 1900 hours before total replacement." : what is your trigger to say that your tubes need replacement? Do they stop working? Or do you test them periodically and when are they out of spec you say "OK end of life reached", or do they just sound bad, or don't they reach their bias point anymore...or...?
As far as tube life goes, there are several mechanisms that determine tube life, one of which is the already mentioned plate dissipation/ heat production in Watts, calculated as the product of Plate-Cathode voltage and Plate Current. But theres more, like are the screen grids glowing? Very often a cause of failure in the long run. Also cathode flaking, and also cathode treatment in the factory: like how good are the oxides bonded to the cathode base material? And some more, like vacuum quality, plate material, quality of manufacture especially the spot welding of grid wires to the stands.... Each weak point responding to another form of startup- or operating conditions.