And I've heard the arguments why they are "disorienting". No, they are not, not to me. Yes, we can locate where we are in space with sound reflections... When there are objects around to reflect. When we are enclosed. But out in an open field... There are no reflections from objects... We are not disoriented. The most accute spacial cues come from below, the ground. And that's the one thing in a listening room that really can't be treated well. Carpet and pad absorbs hardly nothing. A lot comes back. My floor is easily seen in REW. Point being, if you don't "like it" fine, but there is nothing about listening to reproduced music that requires it. And most processing locates musicians in space and adds reverb. I hear what is intinded without my room... And of course, my room is not an anechoic chamber regardless what I have done. I have lots that remain.
The point is not treatment to add treatment. The point is to trap bass and it requires a lot regardless of what cute traps retailers try to sell. Bass is difficult to address with long wavelengths in smaller rooms. To trap bass, you need a lot of high gas resistivity. That naturally traps everything else. So... Trapping bass is always good... If you prefer a more live room, you can cover some surface area with more reflective surface which means more upper frequencies are reflected... But bass is still managed. Like anything, tune for what you want, but it all starts with adressing the bottom end. All reflections are not equal.
I don't "prefer" a studio. I've never stepped foot in one. But I understand the benefit of what I've done. I didn't add this in a day. I started with side walls. Then ceiling, then back... It was a progression, and everytime more was better. But I can hear the recorded space exactly as it was intended. And when something is recorded dead in a dead studio... I hear that too. Norah Jones has that song "tiny room" recorded in the booth... Yes, it sounds like I'm in the booth with her. I don't need a live room to hear a dead studio. Again, there is nothing about listening to reproduced music that requires room reflections. And most acousticians make their living off removing them. Liking reflections is personal preference, not a requirement.
This obviously matters more in smaller rooms. If your listening room is a cavern, well then reflections come late and can be disregarded. My room is 16x22 with 8 foot ceilings. And I have 4x8 taken out for utility room. It's an "L". My room is intimate. My friends house with big upstairs and high ceiling with zero treatment. It does sound bigger with similar set up because has a bigger canvass. But my room will never be that. But the stage definition and realism of mine is much better. And the base responce in my room is much better, and we have the same sub.