Don, you are giving away all the secrets!
I addition to Don's suggestions, I would use two different values to make a larger one instead of two of the same value. Different values would sound different even if they total the same. If you can, model the capacitance, ESL and ESR to reduce the "wiggles" in the FR. That may have been why when you tried this on a tweeter with 3 or 4 caps, it sounded dead. The 3 or 4 you picked "clashed".
It's been quite a while, but I believe I was used different-value caps with that horrible result; then, when I switched to just two (still different), the result was much better. Frankly, I am kinda scared playing with separate value capacitors, due to lack of experience and background.