Music reproduction and music reproduction perception are expressions of art and reactions to it. As such, we are all bound, almost by definition, to act and react differently. The artist - aka sound recordist and equipment designer/manufacturer - has a vision, expressed in a certain way. The art lover - aka the listener/audiophile - is bound to react in all sorts of ways to the art.
Artists vary in all sorts of ways, and so do art lovers. Both camps are biased and bound by their own experiences, abilities, exposure to the subject (music), and most of all, personal preferences. In the end, the higher the exposure to the subject, the more sophisticated both camps become when it comes to 'acting' and 'reacting' to the art. Happens with all expressions of art.