Tim,
After reading your comment I would like to add some words.
In my case, the objective of high-end audio is not emulating the exact life sound in my room. Most of the time I do not want to have exactly the same sound pressure as in a live event - but I want to have as many as possible positive clues of a live event that allow me to perceive it as a live event. Better still - to get a similar pleasure I got from a life event, added to fact that I am listening in my system at my room.
The ideal sound level for reproducing a recording depends in some part on the way the engineers recorded it, on the equipment and the listening room acoustics, but also on listener preference.
Reproducing a set of drums is enjoyable for some people and is a nice challenge for a show demonstration or a test. I own and enjoy the Bill Elgart recordings by Mark Levinson, as well as the Shefield direct cut LP Drum record and the Burmester drum track of test CD III . My current speakers (Sound lab A1 Pxs) do not have the bass and dynamic capabilities of a pair of Wilson Maxx's I have hosted for a few months, but I consider they are more life like in the reproduction of the recordings I listen 95% of the time.
Just to summarize - I do not consider that reproducing a set of drums at life like sound levels as an objective of sound reproduction. Others will think differently.