Not ignoring your question, just very difficult to answer with so many great systems over the years and so many very special pieces of equipment. I am tremendously enjoying each and every one of my systems. In the early days, when I was in pursuit of the mythical “Absolute Sound”, there was less enjoyment as every listening session was a critical one, listening for audiophile attributes (soundstage width/depth, image delineation, details resolution, black backgrounds, bass depth, micro dynamics and so on) but once I saw the light, it has become all about enjoying the music and the different flavors in presentation and tone that each system delivers.
To try to answer your question more directly, the one significant system that altered my outlook is my big mastering system, as it allowed me to explore and gave me first hand experience in that all audiophile attributes can simply be dialed in with the right equipment and insight into just how powerful the mastering tools are. At the end of the day it is all just about frequency, amplitude, phase, and surprisingly distortion.
Many unique and one of a kind pieces of equipment have come into my listening room, and most have never left, too many to name and they all come to mind all at once so it is hard and very difficult for me to order them in any type of hierarchy or emotional priority list. Some of the most notable components in my collection are well documented in my Friday night listening thread, while others such as the one-of-a-kind Krell KRS-400 monoblocks amplifiers can be seen in the pictures but have not yet been discussed. I like equipment that is unique and that no one else has, and that keeps me away from the “me too“ and “flavor of the months” brands and components that come AND go on this and other forums. Never been a bandwagon type person in my choice of music, stereo equipment, cars or personality.