I think it important to remember that the condition of the stylus is a very important factor as to the
wear on the record. A worn and/or a badly aligned cartridge can damage a record in just one play.
Many of us are probably using a cartridge that might be past its prime...may still sound ok but
is still putting too much wear on the LP

In a prior thread,we talked about the various lifespans to be expected of a cartridge..according to
Music Direct, they seem to believe a cartridge is worn out after just a few years of use.
The other aspect of wear has to do with how much grunge resides in the grooves to start with; if you haven't got the grooves clean, then you will be using the stylus to spread the grunge around the record thereby damaging the groove.