Thank you for sharing your journey,
@Skanda. Very enjoyable and insightful. Life is very busy for me these days leaving almost no time for forum activity and yet it has been worthwhile making the time to read your posts.
Your following statement caught my attention:
"Resolution, space, speed take first preference. Tonal density matters more to me now that it did before because I am at the point in my audio journey where I have realized that the upper echelons of gear don't require one to sacrifice body for detail and air. I do like a bit of richness in vocals but my ears are particularly sensitive to speed and most gear described as "rich" is often slow to my ears. Dynamics are extremely important as I like a first row presentation that pops out at me but I also realize that modern music can be dynamically limited so often it's not a fault of my system but a fault of the recording."
I couldn't have said this any better. This is exactly how I feel and these are the characteristics where I personally find the Extreme to really excel.
Regarding your DAC, I had a chance to experience the Rockna Wavedream XLR edition last year driving a pair of D'Agostino Momentum M400s monoblocks and a pair of Wilson Alexx speakers and was REALLY impressed. Possibly among the best output stages I've heard in a DAC with rich, dense tone without sounding slow or syrupy. I have not personally experienced the Wavedream NET although I imagine there is a special synergy there, especially via I2S. You are in a good situation as you already have a setup that you love and so you really can't lose.
Regarding the Extreme, here are my 2 cents. Having explained your situation, I understand why you've opted to use the ancillary gear that you're using but you should view the Extreme like you do your Symphonic Line Kraft 300 amplifier. If you're using a generic 14 or 18awg power cord to power your Extreme, then you're not hearing anywhere close to what it can offer with regards to dynamics and space. In my own experience, even an 8 or 10awg cord hobbles it. Basically, the larger the gauge, the better. Consider reaching out to Mark at
@Sablon Audio to see if he can lend you a Prince power cord (6awg). It won't cost you anything to try it and having compared several, I can attest to the synergy between this power cord and the Extreme.
As for your choice of USB cable, this is less crucial than the power cord but unless you're using the same $5 Amazon Basics USB cable with the Wavedream NET, it would be hard to call this a fair A/B since the USB cable makes a fairly significant difference. Since you are fond of WireWorld, consider reaching out to thecableco.com and ask to borrow the Platinum Starlight 7 USB cable from their lending library. If you decide to reach out to Sablon Audio to borrow a Prince power cord, perhaps Mark can also lend you one of his USB cables. You've gone this far and so for your sake, give the Extreme a reasonable chance to show you what it can do.
Regarding your network, the simplest thing I can suggest is to disconnect your Extreme from your network during playback. It won't cost you a penny to do this. In my own system, I have found that the absolute best network configuration with regards to SQ is no network at all. It is the advantage that CD transports have over music servers. If you play back a file that is locally stored on your Extreme, you can generally disconnect the Extreme from your network and play back that file without interruption. You can then hear for yourself how damaging the network connection can be and get a truer sense of what the Extreme is capable of without the network variable.
Also, consider trying playback software other than Roon. I'm not sure if you're using Roon now with your Wavedream NET but I'm willing to bet the NET sounds better as an MPD server than as a Roon server. In my opinion, Emile has done an excellent job making Roon sound as good as it can but in my system, I'm finding my very best SQ when Roon is taken out of the equation. Having had the opportunity to try a prototype feature that Emile developed for TAS, there is reason to be optimistic about its abilities once it is released. Until TAS becomes available, consider installing HQP Desktop on your Extreme, even if you choose not to upsample or use any of its filters. The evaluation version is free to try and HQP Server to my ears is a big step better than Roon. Drag a file or an album onto HQP's playback window and since HQP does not reach out to the network at all during playback, you can then completely disconnect your Extreme from the network. This is how I listen to my Extreme these days and I have not looked back. Once the TAS/HQP interface has been developed, I'll have the ability to stream Qobuz/Tidal again but until then, I buy what I like and keep it stored locally inside the Extreme.
While the initial financial outlay for an Extreme is greater than with the Wavedream NET, keep in mind that the Extreme is more future-proof and has greater flexibility. If you've opened up your Extreme, then you know how many free PCIe slots there are. This gives you the freedom to tune your Extreme to taste using various 3rd party input and output cards. Aside from a network switch that will be made available only to Extreme customers, as many know, Emile is also working on his own USB output card for the Extreme. Don't be surprised if he has other significant things in the works. This large chassis can also accommodate almost any size motherboard that may come along. The Extreme will definitely evolve with time.
Ultimately, what really sets the Extreme apart is Emile himself. The Extreme is not just its hardware or software but really all the proprietary scripts that Emile has created that integrate the two. Because of Emile, the Extreme is eminently tunable allowing it to morph or adapt to changing situations or to personal taste. You want more speed, greater body, greater density, more atmosphere, etc., these are qualities that can be manipulated and on many occasions already, Emile has done this for me. I don't think you will find better and more responsive customer service.