I preferred your Animas to your Epilog, and the Yamamura to the big Apologue (as does the owner). I found the Stenheims much different that (at the show at least) their drivers seemed more coherent together.
You barely listened to the Epilogs and impatiently at that, you had already decided, at that time, the Animas were best and that is what you came to my house to listen to. The second time you came you only listened to the Anima.
Different people have different tastes in sound, thankfully for all the diverse manufacturers in the business! Your taste and mine obviously differ.
Overall, whilst I love the Animas, they are a bit distant in frequency balance, a bit like sitting further back in the concert hall. Sometimes this is how I want to listen, sometimes not.
I had a very experienced listener over here last month and he did not like the balance of the Animas on an old Doors album, but was bowled over by the Epilogs. Most people are, to be honest. I think you are the only person who has heard them who doesn't like the Epilogs much.
OTOH I also like the Magico Q1 and Q5 (I haven't heard the other Qs) and Wilson Saschas and Alexias, but they are not better than the Epilogs to my ears.
I loved Apogee active Divas I had before the Epilogs but panels overlay too much of the listening room acoustic over the recording venue for me, it gives a great effect but was not too realistic replaying my own recordings. I do miss the effect sometimes.
That is it, I had the Divas from 1990 until ~1997, the Epilogs since then and the Animas for a couple of years. I listen many hours a day but those 3 are the only ones I know really well, and I don't even notice sound quality whilst listening to music, which means my system works well for me. I hate evaluating sound quality, so mine is a good final system for me.