Hello Ron,
You are correct. I am not talking about being surrounded by the fellow concert-goers, their noises and smells or their charms. The three dimensional physical sense of being in a large venue, or a smaller chamber, or a jazz club, is important though.
I am talking about the way the listening experience makes me feel. I can be relaxed, energized, or somewhere in between, both in the music venue or in my listening room. My mind can be free to wander, get absorbed, be free to focus. It is about what the listening experience does to one's body and to his mind.
Some systems preclude this sense of freedom and abandonment to the music. Others do not. It is about how the music is retrieved and then presented which creates an atmosphere in which the listener is free to react to what he hears and where the music takes him. This happens to me at the live music venue. I want the same freedom to react to the music at home. It is more than the sound one hears. It is the connection to the music and where that leads one. I want the system and the set up to allow these things to happen, not to hinder them.
It sounds pretty simple, and just like hearing natural sound from a system, it is a goal that perhaps many other people have. I really do not know. This is about my thoughts and goals and not about anything else. Wanting a system that sounds natural was the easy part. The experience part, beyond the sound, took me years to fully recognize and to understand. I am only now learning how to express this distinction, its true importance, and how to go further in this direction.
This is my own reflection and explanation of what I am doing with my system and set up. I make no claims or commentary for anyone else. I respect and appreciate that others have different ideas and goals and go about achieving them in their own way. That is what makes this hobby so fascinating.