I think one of the issues that leads to the discussion here comes from the experience of a reproduced performance being different than the experience of a live performance. Some people, not all, want a system that sounds closer to a live performance than not. And yes, if you are not interested in live performance, then you are probably not one of the people who wants their system to sound like one. And yes, just because you enjoy live performance does not mean you want your stereo to sound like one. And yes, there are all sorts of reasons for people go with the status quo and accept the state of reproduced audio just as it is.
Let's stipulate that reproduction will never be reality and that home stereo will not be mistaken for live performance. Nonetheless some people are dissatisfied with the direction of reproduced audio today because, to them, it seems to be moving further away from, not closer to, the live music experience. That is not enitrely different in your own interest in transparency to the recording although there is more to it than that. I have no problem in seeing a goal or a direction in the notion of the 'absolute sound', defined as the sound of live acoustic music. Don't get that notion confused with the magazine.
The language of audio you say has developed over the last 50 years - probably more like 60 years - that language has changed. I"ll reference the following interview with Paul Klipsch, -
@ddk gets credit for bringing this to our attentionin in his brief thread
It's Either Fidelity Or It's Infidelity.
People who are not interested in building stereo systems that bring them closer to the live experiernce are probably not interested in the topic of this thread. And that's fine. Audio can be entertaining whatever approach you take. But since this is a forum where we talk far more than we listen, I thought the topic worth exploring. I wish there was some big reveal at the end that resolved the two languages - maybe there will be - but I don't have it ... yet, though I do have some ideas. Maybe someone does, or maybe discussion will help us move closer to the sonic goal by talking about it.
For clarilty: When I talk about the language of music I mean the language of describing acoustic music when we hear it. (Just as the language of reproduction - the audiophile language - can describe hearing a stereo system or component.) I do not mean the technical underpinnings of reading music or playing music although those may provide background or impetus to understanding.