I'm totally lost on what your new diagram is supposed to be showing. It certainly doesn't seem to be depicting the operational position of the stylus at all.
If you compare the diagram and your picture, I think you will basically see the exact same thing
I can't tell what the shadow is at the very bottom of the tip.
Your tip has naturally darkened due to use (heat); that's the actual contact area in the groove, also as depicted in my new diagram