Reading this thread gives me the impression that scale to some degree cannot to reproduced in a audio system. If you say not to the same degree as the actual event I agree. But on a properly engineered and mic'd recording you do not get a sense of what you are listening to, like a 30 person chorus and the power,space,energy,and shear volume isn't apparent,let's just say you have something to look forward to.
Another straw man argument, then, presupposing people "haven't heard what I hear" and their opinions should therefore be discounted. Speaking for myself, with my various loudspeaker choices, I have a wonderfully expansive soundstage, where many recordings blow away walls. (Variable length listening room, 11 feet high, 15 feet wide, and variable 24 or 50 feet long, depending upon whether the ceiling height doors six feet behind the listening position are open or closed.)
I can divulge I have an analytical mind and a tendency to weep during very engaging passages of music. I also have friends and acquaintances who like to invite themselves over to listen to their favorite music.
Right. That off my chest, I think that all I'm eager to hear is a credible explanation of auditory phenomena that are described as "despite what hifi magazines will tell you, conventional stereo can not reveal height." Conventional stereo is what we've got if you are listening to two speakers placed side-by-side, in front of you.