I agree, Howie. Comparing the achievement of the goal of realistic music reproduction at home with womens' shoe closets, make up bags, and purse collections seems silly. If you can afford your system and it's really worth it, as it truly seems to be in your case, then I can only congratulate you to the enjoyment that it will bring.
On the other hand, to refer back to the title of the thread, I find gearheads with a compulsory drive to always upgrade, without ever being able to actually enjoy music for a while (some are found on WBF as well), well comparable with pursuers of above collections. I also feel pity for them.
Yes, I tend to agree with you about realistic reproduction of music being a greater ideal than the pursuit of fashion. But’s it’s just our preference. Let’s face the reality: beauty, in all of its forms is a worthy pursuit. Remember how a 55 year old grandmother used to look 40 years ago? And now walk into a party, hotel lobby, restaurant, or gym and see how a 55 year old woman looks. Pursuit of beauty has been with us as long as music. Although documented in human history since Cleopatra, there is no doubt that of two women partaking in the "oldest profession in the world", the better looking one was richer and had a better life…Just human nature….
Just try telling the wife or significant other in your life that her very uncomfortable gown and high heeled shoes that make her feet throb, while she is trying to look great, is less important than your “oudated” tube preamp or your “sucky” digital cable! I would love to see a YouTube video of that!
And it’s also a part of human nature to want to upgrade. As I mentioned in a previous post, it is quite pleasurable for us humans to visualize, dream about, and anticipate an imagined, better future. Sorry, this is not an opinion or an anecdotal statement, but is rooted in psychological research. It doesn’t matter if you are an audiophile thinking of new speakers or a new dedicated line, a kid thinking about the new video game console, or a woman thinking about new shoes or lipstick.
Furthermore, research shows that goal pursuit often makes us much happier than goal attainment. From the Kama Sutra: “… from the moment one has obtained something desired, it is no longer desirable…”. How many guys do you know that got that fancy Porsche or built that extravagant, custom built house, and six month later are unhappy and whining about something else? Humans pretty much get used to material possessions very fast. Sure, you get a great emotional boost from a new piece of gear. You may start a thread on it, but in a while the excitement about it gets less and less. After 2 or 3 years, those “puddles of pleasure” dry up, and instead, we start noticing what may be wrong with our system…
Now obviously, this doesn’t apply to Elliot or Priaptor, who are in it for the intrinsic love of music. I think what Elliot is trying to say is that all those years of listening, trying, moving, and swapping gear are all worth it – and have resulted in growth, more passion, and better appreciation and delight. But only when you pursue the system for the ideal of music.