Dear Ack: Many, many thanks for converting the pdfs into images and posting them.
changing just the interconnecting cable (each of which has a different capacitance characteristic), changes the optimal resistive load
This is correct. To speak of cartridge loading without taking into consideration the capacitance of the cable being used is meaningless.
if you can afford to bring up that peak in the MHz to something <10dB then you can bring up resistive loading to about 500-1K ohms even with a highly-capacitive cable
The design of the phono stage will likely have the biggest effect on whether you can avail yourself of this choice or not. How heavily contaminated (or not) your audio system's environment is by conducted and airborne noise in the frequency-peaking bands will also play a role.
you are not really affecting the audible high frequencies with any resistive load shown
Not directly, no. To claim that the loading affects the measurable frequency response of the cartridge is bogus. However, if inappropriate loading bathes the phono stage in copius amounts of high-frequency noise, it may start to distort (unless the designer implemented various techniques to make sure that this won't happen), and the result will likely be intermodulation distortion. IMD products can go low enough to fall within the audible band (even when the stimuli are ultrasonic), and IMD nearly always is not harmonically related to the signal, making it particularly grating to the ear.
Jonathan's cable has really low capacitance and inductance (compare with Nordost's Odin, for example - Jonathan's much better, wrt capacitance, but much higher inductance)
Tonearm cable inductance is typically dwarfed by the inductance of the cartridge signal coils (Lyra PhonoPipe cable inductance 0.75uH, Lyra Kleos coil inductance 9uH), so it makes no sense to reduce the cable inductance if the price to be paid is greater capacitance (which is usually what happens).
When authoring the documentation for our post-2009 cartridges, I went up as high as 600pF cable capacitance (to cover audiophiles who may keep their turntable in a separate room / closet). The official loading recommendations for the Delos, Kleos, Atlas, and Etna reflect this wide range of cable capacitances, and the inclusion of highly capacitive cables for special circumstances is why you may see loading values as low as 95 ohms suggested in our literature. Normally there should be no reason to make the loading so heavy unless your phono stage is particularly non-linear or touchy in the ultrasonic region.
The relationship between cable capacitance ranges and recommended resistive loading values is more fully discussed in the user's manuals for each of our cartridges.
Regarding polarity in recordings, the real problem is that many recordings did not implement a single, consistent polarity when the recording was made. If the recording engineers were diligent about observing one polarity, when you flip the playback polarity, everything in the recording will sound better (or worse). But if the recording engineers allowed different instruments to have different polarities (which happens much too frequently IME), the choice of playback polarity may come down to which instruments you want to sound right, and which instruments you care less about. Fun choices, eh?
kind regards, jonathan