Trouble is, I'm not really sure who Mark or Tim are referring to ...
Not to worry, it's all good, clean fun, it's only a hobby after all, or mostly, in the case of some who are trying to make a buck or two out of the whole exercise!
Of course Steve is correct about enjoying the music. My unfortunate problem is that when the music doesn't come out right, it irritates intensely, and I have the further misfortune of liking music that has been "badly" recorded. So I do have a dilemma ...
For something like over 10 years I just didn't bother trying, let everything just gather dust, and listened to normal stuff -- old Sony integrated, bottom of the range Marantz CD player, no fuss listening. Of course then you're in a mood just to enjoy the music and ooze with the moment. Trouble was, there was quite a bit of music which was a hopeless mess listening this way, so I was finally inspired to get back into the game again, so see if I could make the dud recordings play ball.
As part of this stage of the journey, I joined the city's audiophile society, to see whether people had advanced the cause or not. Nope, quite disappointing, same old problems: expensive gear, very impressive on "correct" recordings, pretty disasterous on everything else. So, for me it was back to drawing board, trying to sort out how to guarantee always to be able to get good sound, which is where I still am.
So I'm not after perfection, I'm after getting maximum musical pleasure out of all the recordings I have. If I could walk into a store and for a reasonable amount buy a complete setup that did the job I would be very happy, Tim's is about the closest here in that category, that is on the way to doing the job but from what he's saying it's still not there. I'm excluding that of Vince's because it's too pricey, and it had to be significantly modified.
I know what is possible from the recordings I have, and so my goal is to always enjoy the potential that is embedded in the tracks. I am just not interested in a Ferrari that you can't take beyond second gear because it'll shake itself to bits ...
Frank