How "close" you are to a live experience is all very subjective. I can appreciate a system sounding more "live" than another, but still don't equate it to anything close to live music - but this does not prevent me from enjoying listening. To each their own.
The thing that bothers me about setting these types of expectations is that the recording quality becomes a critical factor. For me, it's more about getting the best out of the recordings, knowing that a recording is something completely different than a live experience. With this in mind, I feel I can appreciate more recordings as the recording quality itself is (practically) never an obstacle. I received a CD yesterday that I listened to today - here is a track of a 1940 broadcast (Stuff Smith):
Does it sound closer to a "live performance" on my living room speakers as opposed to my small desktop speakers, and would it sound even closer using your system than mine? I don't see things that way. All I want is to have a well balanced, easy to listen to sound, with good resolution/clarity and dynamics. It's more about improvements and scale than reaching an ultimate target.
We seem to have different goals and approaches to the hobby. That is what makes it all so fascinating.