No one was ever focused just or even mainly on the speakers...well you were apparently. I think I understand that you are a speaker focused individual. You would be better off, IMO, if you keep the LAMM ML3s and dump the Wilsons for something that is more sympathetic to the LAMMs. That will yield a more natural sound than trying to get a good match with those speakers, IMO.
Sorry, you think wrong - I am equally focused in all the elements of the system, including the digital source and tape.
Concerning the ML3, the list of acceptable speakers reduces every time we address it with realistic examples for someone who really enjoyed the XLF's , the SF Aida's or electrostatics. I am not desperately pushing the Lamm's ML3 away - if I keep them I would probably go DIY, but currently I can't consider it.