Preference is whatever you like. It's your preference. End of discussion. Nobody gets to care about your preference one way or another unless it passes the tip of their nose. Establish your preference in any way you PREFER. Period. Your preference is yours, only yours, and nobody else's. You don't have any more right to complain about theirs than they have to complain about yours, so be done with it.
Audibility is a scientific argument, and it must be resolved scientifically. This means DBT's, be they ABX, self-training, or whatever. There are many methods, all of which are valid for their intended uses.
Aside from collective preference (that is, the "scientific" community socio-subjectively prescribing what methods are or are not "valid" - utterly problematic in itself), this discussion will fail to progress beyond a certain signal-to-noise ratio (356 posts and going strong) unless the area in which both preference and audibility reside is understood to play the most significant role: The human brain.
Beyond prescriptive self-training, DBT's, etc, and of course, marketing masquerading as pseudo-science on behalf of self-interested parties who are selling audio hardware, though the pursuit of high-fidelity may be over a century old, cognitive neuroscience and the study of how and where music is processed in the brain is still in its infancy.
The "science" of DBT's are utterly redundant in shedding light on cerebral blood flow, neuron activation, right/left hemisphere processing and intra-hemispheric coherence, cortical activation, planum temporale development, etc, and why physiological impairment in some areas "releases" the brain to function at a higher level in some instances (blind patients who show superior localization of monoaural sound and raised cerebral blood flow through the visual cortex versus sighted patients, for instance - localization of binaural sound was the same).
As far as I'm aware, no DBT has ever taken into account any of the physiological or neurological variables of the sample population - whether they suffered from tinnitus, tone deafness, auditory agnosia, amygdala damage, cocaine addiction, or quaffed eighteen cups of coffee prior to the test.
I'm absolutely interested in advances in hardware. I continue to collect vinyl and am considering an audition of an R-2R DAC in the near future - heck, I might even purchase a Devialet for the family room. I'd love to better understand why, at this particular point in time, I consider vinyl a superior playback mechanism to digital. But arguments such as these - not to mention DSD vs PCM, tubes vs SS, compression drivers vs planars vs stats vs dynamics, et al, - remain...
...insufficient. Understanding how the ear/brain system works is paramount.
I really couldn't have said it better myself.