In the context of one piece of gear claiming to reproduce small dynamic differences better than another piece of gear, that difference can only be distortion. Take the case of a loud sound. For simplicity let's say it's a 100 Hz sine wave. That sine wave traverses every possible signal level from zero through its full amplitude. If any portion of that slope is not reproduced linearly, the result is distortion which is very easy to measure. So the notion that small differences in volume level will be minimized, or exaggerated, or reproduced correctly, is a function of the distortion of the audio device.
To ignore a point is to concede it. By not challenging the definition I assume you accept it. You asked for a definition not a cause. I suggest you were fully aware of what the terms meant. In fact you obviously have given it enough thought to suggest a cause and effect. I never made any claim about any different equipment having different qualities.
There's a difference between people using a word incorrectly, versus not being able to explain at all what they mean. If you asked me to define "shouty" I'd say it's a boost in the midrange around 1 KHz. Piercing would be more around 3 KHz. Tubby is more like 150 Hz. Hollow could be a broad null around 700 Hz. Of course these frequencies are approximations. Buzzy would be high-order distortion, and Thick might be 10 to 20 percent 2nd harmonic distortion. If I use a subjective type word to describe audio, I know exactly what I mean and can explain it using other words.
Maybe I made an incorrect inference. Your comment seemed to suggest that his inability to define the terminology meant that his point was invalid. I got that from you statement that not only did you want him to define the terminology but you were waiting for anybody to do it. That is the only reason I responded. If you knew what the terms meant, I think you should have enlightened him. After all I assume you are a professional and he was just a hobbyist.
the end result does not sound like real music.
I have no idea what that means.
After reading up on your opinions about high end audio that answer is exactly what I would expect.
--Ethan