In fact, on the bolded part, sometimes I think audiophiles know their systems so well that it becomes their regretted l reference system, and restricts them from saying other alternatives, and their well laid out plans become an ideology they try not to sway from. Just expounding on what 853 said more euphemistically
You make a good point, Ked. I do sometimes wonder if I get out enough to experience the alternatives. I did, on one recent and very memorable occasion, with my friend Al M. Together we auditioned DACs at a local dealership. That, in many ways, was a revelation, and it completely opened my mind to the possibilities of good digital playback. Interestingly, it was in that very same room, years earlier, in which I heard, for the first time, an audio system which introduced me to what a well sorted high end system could actually sound like. That audition changed my views about what is possible, and it led me down the path I am currently walking.
Reading recent threads about ddk's vintage turntables, Ron's speaker search, as well as the Appoggee thread, I am now very curious about some of these other approaches. I do think we need to get out more, and that is why I am envious of yours and other's audio travel adventures and why those threads are so fascinating to read. Yes, there is much to learn.
853guy, Yes, that too is a great point. Inherent in sweating the small stuff, is leaning from one's mistakes. I guess, one can sweat without learning, but then I think at some point he would simply move on and not sweat any more. Perhaps "reflection" is a way to describe this process, and part of that can be having friends over to evaluate and comment upon system changes. I often return to live music and refer back to that for assessing progress.