Hi Steve,
We just did a cruise as a a family (3 generations) for Thanksgiving in the Caribbean...on the same cruise i bet as Amir. There are two RC boats...Oasis of the Seas and Allure of the Seas...the two largest ships in the world. 16-17 stories tall, 46 restaurants, ice skating rink, movie theater, merry go round, rock climbing walls, forgot how many pools, game rooms. Here is what was GREAT about Oasis (and no one in the family had ever done a cruise before)....Oasis is so big (and new) that:
1. You never feel crowded at all...ever. Feels like you're walking thru a hotel mid-week in the lobby. Every restaurant has space, every venue is open without lines. A few exceptions...but we can talk about that off-line. no big deal.
2. Because the boat is huge, the entire family with extended generations is free to do their own thing during the day...but then quickly reconvene (on time!) for lunch or coffee in 15 minutes. Because even though there are 17- stories worth of stuff, it takes 5 minutes to get from one end of the ship to the other. So we basically had all dinners together, and a number of lunches...but also found great moments of 'bumping into each other' or 'staying after lunch but before dessert to talk'...while the little ones went with my brother or sister-in-law to the merry-go-round one level up. And then the rest of of us would finish dessert and go upstars and join them.
3. The newness, size, variety was enough that for 7 days (including options for daily excursions in the Caribbean)...you felt really good throughout the trip without repeats, boredom. (and when i was a kid, we spent 20 minutes in the Louvre and Dad said "seen it!...now lets go"...to be fair, he has slowed down a bit since we were kids!
Hope that helps...we all (11 of us) enjoyed it, and found it a great opportunity as a family, and realized even at Disney World (also baby/children-friendly)...to cross the Magic Kingdom, take the monorail, get to the otherside...meet you at 4pm...kids are tired...one of them needs an early nap...cannot meet at 4pm now, be there by 5:30p...on the cruise, all of that was easier...just go upstairs...be back in 10 minutes. And at Oasis, you didnt get the opposite...boredom, overcrowded.
But to Amir's point, it was nice to be in the newest, biggest ship. We all suspected it made a big difference.
feel free to pm.