I think adding microphone/recording techniques is distorting (pun intended
) the original point, because it was relating to perceived hearing and people care about gear measurements when most room suck.
More important is the fact IMO is how many natural instruments are used in homes without room treatments, this is greater number than audiophiles so in a way room suckiness needs to be kept within some context.
After all, why buy an incredibly expensive piano if you do not have a perfect small listening hall to play it in (designed specifically for natural musical instruments such as piano - some of the best are a moderate sized wooden panelled studio-room that would fail waf factor) , that is just one example.
Now a good room example is that of Ken Ishiwata that is specifically designed for sound quality, it seriously fails the waf factor and is very similar to my example of the piano wooden panelled moderate size listening hall by using same materials and similar size.
However it must be mentioned the room has very specific-calculated absorption-diffusion, but this is integral to a bespoke made room, costing 120,000 euros.
The other that most audiophiles probably do not appreciate though, is understanding the speaker and the how it will work within a room, critically as well how/where to place the speaker.
We see the same with musical instruments in homes, worst case pianos against walls, other instruments reinforced by reflections,etc.
What would be interesting; how many have experimented by having a musician friend play say a saxophone with them repeating this in different rooms in the house and critically different positions in a room?
It provides an interesting insight that while the room does affect sound traits, it is not applicable to all factors associated to an instrument/tone/timbre.
So one needs to appreciate a sucky room affects sound in specific ways, and then positioning and type of speaker implemented will then affect others.
On top of this, due to specific sound traits being affected, audio measurements do still matter as the quality/dissonance can still be picked up, and as anecdotally seen in forums usually is.
So we need to appreciate just what factors are affected by room and how it relates to either the musical instrument, or soundstage-imaging-depth-etc, and on top of this we need to appreciate just what factors are affected by speaker type chosen for room and positioning (site and angle) with same factors and considerations.
That is my take on this and will post about how even listening to orchestra at a concert is not truly ideal listening for most (what came out in the academic lab research paper on sound quality), and is more complex than most would think.
Cheers
Orb