I liked my old man. He came from that Greatest Generation that did most everything- electrical, plumbing, whatever, himself. He was sent to Nagasaki after the bomb, and never really talked about that. At the end, he had dementia, which was worse for him than me. He thought I was one of his brothers and was talking about 1940. Treasure them while you got 'em if they are worth it as beings.When I was 16 my Dad thought audiophiles were nuts.
Now, because of me, he knows they are.
I'm now a geezer. It is like a comfort zone-- oh, he's a geezer, a little crazy, leave him alone.