You know i think i missed this....my apologies.
Yes, 100%.
I pay close attention when others say subs should be ahead or behind the mains.
My experience was I started with them the same distance from the listening position as the main speakers, and then crept them back until the front baffle of sub is about two inches further from lp than the front baffle of main speakers are, on the same arc, ten inches apart from the mains.
Any closer and the mains can't breathe like they should.
The most important principle is site your mains where they need to be, then the subs go alongside, fine tune by ear.
Don't let the subwoofer setup software dictate where the subs should go. The software will locate the point in the room where the sub works best. Counterintuitively, this isnt where you want them, unless you want to be selling them on again pronto cos they give you headache every time you play music even on level '1'
As Mark Seaton said elsewhere, the room cannot be in service to the subs.
Their job is not to tread on the toes of the main speakers, but to supplement and enhance them, and reinforce the deepest register. If you have them operating above 40hertz and it's not a party and you're not listening to dub reggae, sack your main speakers
Forgive the ramble, but hard won experience and all that