we had dueling high-end stores where I once lived each with their own loyal following. I stuck with the bohemian/laid back store, they embraced tubes and almost exclusively demoed with vinyl (still has 35,000 LPs on display for sale). the other shop played the same audiophile drek over and over and the clientele was more uptight/constipated. I ended up owning more Conrad Johnson and krell than I wanted (the other store had ARC and levinson) I did flirt with buying from the 'other place' but I remained loyal. to this day we remain great friends, whenever I stop in we talk about everything under the sun except audio (a good thing)
Rob, of course I know which stores you are talking about. I actually had an affinity for the store that had the more uptight/constipated clientele, LOL. That was until one day about 20 years ago, I went into the store and one of the salesmen confronted me with verbal abuse. He was unhappy because I had been in the store for about ten minutes and had not bought anything! Said to me that I was always loitering and a waste of his time!! ( Even though I had spent many thousands of $$'s there in the past).
I was pretty incensed by his behavior/ accusations and demanded to speak to the owner...whom I always assumed was a friend as well as 'good guy'. Owner comes out and immediately starts to berate me with similar drivel. I have never set foot in that establishment again, and I never will. OTOH, the more laid back establishment has now benefited from my business on several occasions. ( Even though the owner can be a little....).