Thanks, I appreciate it.
So it seems only the folks who are "nerds" who have overcome the learning curve - and I mean that it a respectful way, as in nerds ruling the world - don't find Computer Audio confusing. The rest will either listen to a friends and get a set up just like it, or buy a professional server. Or more likely - will just stick with a CD player.
even though i'm not a techie, and i have my Son assist me with this stuff....i'd say that if one wanted to have a server based digital music library and do dsd over USB it is quite doable with some perseverence. i've had to do enough at certain times that i can see it's not rocket science.
a few years ago it did require more actual specialized knowledge than it does now.
optimizing your server for latency is maybe the most difficult part but you can find information on that if you look.
even though i'm as analog centric as anyone here, using a server to access music is such a dream way to go....it's worth some frustration to figure it out.