Then let's get past it. First of all, all I'm saying is that quite a bit of "high-end" gear is deliberately colored, and that quite a few audiophiles prefer their systems deliberately colored. It's not an allegation against all subjectivists; one could judge audio subjectively only and still choose neutral equipment. And it's not an allegation against you. If you've stated what is in your system, other than your Martin Logans, I honestly don't remember what it was, so I can't criticize it. I will admit I have assumed you may have such tastes because you've defended them so vehemently, but they require no defense. If someone likes an "exciting" or "forward" or whatever you want to call it sound, well-known and unsubtle examples of which can be found, for example, in Naim and Linn gear designed for "PRaT", enjoy. Conversely, if someone loves a "warm," "smooth" sound of the kind often found in tube electronics, NOS dacs, vinyl, etc, I'm fine with that as well. Enjoy. But when the fact that such systems don't measure as accurately as those well-designed to deliver a neutral signal to the transducers causes their proponents to dismiss the measurements, declare those who respect them to "listen to charts and graphs" and claim, in pseudo-scientific language, that deliberately colored systems are more "natural" or "resolving," I will object.
I've limited my comments here to electronics because while you can deliberately choose colored transducers, it is also all but impossible to avoid them. They are the weak link in the reproduction chain, and the rooms they are played in are even weaker. Discussing their neutrality or lack thereof, their measured response vs. subjective impressions is all but pointless. Your MLs are a perfect example; in the right room, from the right position, playing the right material, they can deliver a transcendent listening experience. Change the toe-in and they can fall apart.
I hope that settles us. I really don't want to argue with you.
Back to getting what you pay for, I think respecting the measurements is a great place to start. Look for electronics with the appropriate input and output impedances, low noise, low distortion, flat frequency response and the current and wattage to properly drive the transducers you have in mind. You're going to find that all of the above is available in a shockingly wide range of prices. Now listen. As objectively as you can. Blind if possible. You'll end up getting a LOT for what you pay.
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