Well, I think you have touched on one of the key problems. I personally think that descriptions of emotional impressions based on listening to a piece of audio gear are virtually worthless. It is the music, not the sound of the gear, that stimulates the emotions. And, emotional reactions are fleeting, totally inconsistent from hearing to hearing and dependent on so many extraneous influences, some trivial, many unconscious, that it boggles the mind.
I think reviewers and commentators should stick with describing the sound of what they are hearing. Good reviewers do that, inexperienced wannabes do not. Emotions do nothing but cloud the issue and they are part of the whole hyperbole problem. As I have said before many times, the size of one's goosebumps on first listening to component X really may have little to do with how it actually sounds. If people think it is the sound of the audio component that triggers their emotional high, no wonder they are later disenchanted when hearing the same music through the same system triggers a different or lesser emotional response, which it will do, guaranteed.
I think you confuse emotions with impressions in my post (I know I used the phrase "emotional connection" to try to describe it) - I didn't say it moved me emotionally, I said it portrayed a certain live quality that a photograph lacks. There are many photographs that move me emotionally but a painting can capture a certain essence in a subject that a photograph can't - it's the artist highlighting, in subtle ways, a certain aspect of the subject that he/she sees & strives to capture.
Yes, MAY being the important word in the highlighted piece above. It MAY also have everything to do with how it actually sounds. As I said if there is widespread, uninfluenced agreement coming to the same conclusion, it leads me to conclude that there is an objective reason for my perception. If I live with the device & continue to perceive it in the same way then why should I care what is the underlying reason for my perception.
I wonder where your guarantee of lesser emotional response is coming from? Are you basing it on the fact that many audiophiles change their systems on an ongoing basis? Just because we change audio devices doesn't mean that we now think what we had before was junk. Often it's because they are improving their systems & discovering new aspects of realism in audio reproduction as their systems improve. Yes, we can go down wrong paths & cul-de-sacs in this journey. As I said in my last post, I believe underlying noise modulation in a system is one of the biggest barriers to the perceived realism of reproduced audio. The more this is brought under control, the more realistic the audio system sounds. Could I be wrong - yes but it's a working theory that currently seems to fit my experience & recent uncovering of the thresholds of our perception of noise (ITU-R-468) which is more sensitive by > 12dB centered around 6Khz only strengthens this.
I'm reminded of some Leonard Cohen lyrics when reading yours & other's posts
"I fought against the bottle,
But I had to do it drunk –
Took my diamond to the pawnshop –
But that don’t make it junk.
I know that I’m forgiven,
But I don’t know how I know
I don’t trust my inner feelings –
Inner feelings come and go."