I will explain everything. First of all - there is no such thing as standby mode for tubes. Tubes must be fully powered all the time. We can not heat them half way, and the anode current is already smallest it can be in aour DAC because it is not an amplifier.
Disconnecting tubes completely just to run digital makes no sense, because digital will do no good by idling in the background. It will work optimally as soon as tubes are ready (5-10 minutes). Therefore adding any complexity of selective power off makes no sense to me.
The remote controlled DAC has the extra power relay that can be operated by the floor button or remote. The NON-VOLUME DAC doesnt have anything other than mains switch at IES inlet socket.
As far as tube longevity goes, they should be kept on during the listening day, and switched off for the nights and holidays.
As far as power waste goes, each tube consumes around 6 Watts of heating and 2 Watts of Anode supply, the digital section consumes 10 Watts, the volume section consumes circa 1 watt, so the whole DAC SE consumes 10+1+4+12 = 27 Watts, Balanced +4+12 = 43 Watts.
The front off button is not possible because of dual voltage nature of the DAC - the front button means there must be a RELAY to be activated, and the relay can be only 115 OR 230V and the relay can not be dual voltage by nature. We can not control where second hand DACS will be sold later by the users and they may be crossing the "mains voltage" borders, where a mains switch can be very useful - that red one with 115/230 change.