Agreed, and it’s for the exact reason I stated in my first post. Anything above 1K and you are unloading the cartridge so you really aren’t going to hear much change with most cartridges.
You lost me here with your comment that “relative to the 100 ohms, the SS does lose more bass control.” Do you mean above 100 ohms SS loses bass control? As the cartridge edges past the point where it becomes unloaded, the bass will become looser because you have lost your braking action. If you prefer the sound of bass that is not being reproduced optimally with tubes more than SS, I really don’t know what to say.
That sounds like an intelligent statement, but David Wilson’s knowledge extends beyond how to build speakers. I’m not saying he knows more about cartridges than J Carr, I’m just saying he wrote a great article about loading MC cartridges and why it matters.
Let's just say Dave and Jonathan are acquainted with each other. When I was out in UT years ago, Dave had Jonathan build him a one off Parnassus that was supposed to be ruler flat