Tango, are you saying that a microphone is more sensitive than a good pair of ears? You may be talking about how a performance is mic'd and recorded and then engineered. I don't hear the first violinist breathing from eight rows back, but a close mic'd recording can pick this up. Do you want the system, or cartridge in this instance, to obscure that detail which is captured in the recording? Clarity and resolution are precisely what I hear when I sit close to an orchestra during a classical concert, though it is not what a microphone which hangs closer to the musician hears. If a detailed sound at the extremes seems unnatural to the listener, I would suggest that there are distortions taking place, artifacts of some kind that do not exist in real acoustic music. Sometimes a very extended and neutral cartridge simply exposes either flaws in the recording or flaws in the rest of the system.
I do understand why some people prefer rolled off highs and lows to what may be the alternative - an unpleasant sound from a system, but, in my experience, live acoustic music is not rolled off at the extremes and resolution or one' ability to hear it all is what the experience of live music is all about. I have heard systems which purport to be transparent and "high resolution", "super detailed" only to feel quickly fatigued and seek refuge in another room. That "detailed" sound is not for me as it is artificial and nothing like the natural sound of live. This whole subject is also very dependent on one's own preferences, perceptions, and exposure to live music.
If Ron prefers a rolled off or "softer" sound, that is fine. There is lots of gear that will satisfy that taste. The question I would ask is where does one introduce the roll off? Is it cumulative with each choice in gear, or is it at the transducers, the cartridge or the speakers. From what I gather, Ron will have an extremely neutral and resolving turntable and speakers. I don't know about the electronics, cables, arm or cartridge.