I can't and wont speak about acousticians and professionals however I do know that there are some very good people that can help you with getting the most from your system. This to many is not acceptable to them for various reasons which may include their own thoughts and ego.
The proper positioning of the speakers and the listening position are not matters of opinions and so when they are not set properly everything that follows will be to solve problems that are self inflicted. Understanding how different speakers work in rooms really helps get the most out of them.
As someone that has been in the business for a long time I have found that most do not want help even if offered for free. I don't understand this but it has been my findings. There are also many times that even if we go the client has set parameters that preclude really doing the job correctly. For example I can't move the furniture and the speakers must go in this space.
This is fine for acceptable results and then living with the compromises that they self inflicted. Many then are on an endless search for the "magic" device to fix what may not have been broken but caused by the set up.
I am not claiming to be the final word or the audio guru but I do read a lot of stuff here on WBF that is just wrong and that people state as facts.
I get people all the time that ask the dimensions of my room and where the speakers are placed etc. All interesting but have no valid impact in their space. I don't make anything for saying what I am about too but I am willing to say that if you use these people you will get a significant improvement in your sound without buying anything.
Jim Smith and Stirling Trayle are both terrific at set up and analyzing your room and gear. Neither to my knowledge sells anything but their expertise and time. With the huge sums of money spent by many on this site one would think that more would invest in experts to take them to their end game.
What can happen in a home should always or almost always exceed a show. There are exceptions of course ands there are really awful rooms and not so amazing gear but for the most part the gear today is great and with some expert set up it can be marvelous sounding.
I do not agree that other industries have no parallels. I play golf with people all the time that sound like audiophiles . They read this book, they watched that video, they bought this club and that ball etc. etc. yet they are not good. When asked if they ever thought about taking lessons from a good teacher they have a blank stare. My father was a simple man and certainly no genius. He had a high school education and worked with his hands most of his life. He taught me some really important things. One of which was to research from whom you buy not just what to buy.
I believe listening like many skills can be improved and can be taught how and what to listen for. I had great mentors and teachers. Just lucky perhaps and in the right place at the right time but it matters. I thank Harry Pearson, Bill Johnson, Jon Dahlquist, Arnie Nudel, Mike Kay and others all the time, I got a post graduate education in NYC. I was able to go to Lincoln Center, Carnegie Hall both before and after, the Fillmore, MSG, Academy Of Music, My Fathers Place, The Stone Pony etc. Harry was an amazing teacher and I was lucky enough to tag along for much of the journey. At Lyric in those days everyone who was anyone came through those doors both in Audio and in the real world. Designers, musicians, Rock stars, Nobel Prize winners, Musical and Theatrical directors,. It was an education one could not pay for.
I still believe there are many that know more than me and perhaps if others were to learn from the past they would get some better results.
Enjoy