When you have a room that's too small for a wave to form, you still get the sound, and it can actually get louder because it contains the pressure better. What the ear detects is the cyclic rising and falling of the air pressure, regardless of whether there's a wave travelling or not. Once there's a space small enough that it's maximum dimension is about 1/4 wavelength, there's no more wave, just pressure going up and down evenly throughout the entire space, which is really great! Generally speaking, really small, sealed spaces, like the interior of a car, can have excellent deep bass. The woofer cone moves outward and pressurizes the entire volume of the cabin, and then it moves back in and depressurizes the entire volume. The frequency can be heard at very nearly the same loudness everywhere in the cabin. There are no waves traveling around to interfere with each other and create peaks and dips.
The ultimate example is probably in-ear monitors. They produce very deep bass in the tiny space in your ear canal. Nobody but you can hear it. Your eardrum is moving in sync with the driver at low bass notes.
DSP has some limits, but can be very helpful in equalizing out peaks at the listening position. As Earl Geddes and others have shown, if you use multiple subs in a room - at least 3 is recommended - it's possible by experimenting with position to get a frequency response in the bass that's nearly equal throughout most of the room. So if you use DSP to equalize that flat, you'll take care of most of the peaks and dips over most of the room.
Acoustic treatments like bass traps can also be used to further tame resonances and make the job of DSP easier. Besides wave interference problems creating peaks and dips, there are also bass reverberance problems where a bass note just hangs out in the room for too long. This is where bass absorption is particularly effective.