Peter I’m middle path on emojis, for me it’s more about how they are used. They can be a tool for good or for evil.So you wink, or roll your eyes, or stick your tongue out during conversations with people?
I would prefer it, because doing so with care should provide clearer intent.
Writing and speaking often leads to misunderstandings. But there can be a dialog and explanations leading to clarity. Less so with emojis. Does the laughing emoji mean he thinks your comment is funny or ridiculous, or you’ve got eggs on you face? Is he laughing out loud or quietly to himself? Does the roll eyes emoji mean your reader is bored or rediculous? Does the thumbs up mean you agree, ok you understand, you like something a lot or a little? Or are you just agreeing with your buddy because he is arguing with someone you can’t stand?
People want to be clever by being vague, open to interpretation or inference but not definitive. It is safer. Members insult each other all the time and end the post with a wink to be safe or avoid being reported. Wink, no worries mate. You are an idiot. Or, hearts in my eyes: I love you bro, I have a man crush man. I agree with you 1000%. That’s great, you just checkmated that fool.
Emojis enable one to respond very quickly and not have to spend the time or mental effort to compose a clear and articulate response to better convey meaning. We used to say that something is funny for these reasons. Then, wow, that’s funny. Then, in the screen age, simply LOL. Now it is a laughing face like the tween girls use.
The introduction of emojis here on this forum has led in my view to a general decline in cordiality, tribal factions, and misunderstandings. The tone and tenor of the discourse has declined. We came as curios hobbyists and are now ranked with points in different charts, everything collected, and to report that we are not really equal. Reaction scores? Who comes up with this stuff? Some very clever people.
Not everyone loves writing quite as much as some and if they add an additional layer of understanding or help better express the spirit of a paragraph of text a bit by clarifying intent that’s always potentially good for me. I find there needs to be latitude in understanding varying individual perceptual modalities when it comes to how people communicate.
I do like the crack me up kind of good spirited comment supported with light hearted well meaning expressions inserted with positive consideration.
My least favourite is the smug winkie used to punctuate a condescending or superior kind of remark, shortly followed by the disturbing red angry threatening aggressive face emoji… most of the others can at times be either positive, benign or indeed just silly meaningless depending on context and usage. Out of respect not a single emoji has been harmed in the making of this post btw. But for me they can build on understanding and add colour and don’t have to be harmful or diminish the nature of communication, that’s usually more a function of the writer.
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