Peter,
Again you say it all when you quote "When you close your eyes". I do not want my sound reproduced music to sound like a listening experience with closed eyes. IMHO it is not the objective of producers, sound engineers and most listeners. Even maestros appreciating stereo sound reproduction are known to change the position of the musicians in the orchestra to create a more rewarding recording. Soloists of the best recordings are many times manually panned to avoid needing compression in the recording. The jazz sound was influenced by the limitations of the recording process.
For example I love the way the Lamm ML3 illuminates the whole stage - probably the feature I valuate more in this amplifier, after its beautiful sound. But I associate it also with what I see in a concert or recital. I understand Tim message, but I think he builds his argument mostly on the poor characteristics of some systems to highlight his preference. IMHO WBF audiophiles and most well known reviewers do not love fireworks, trains and moonlight serenades.
I listen a lot to ancient music. In this type of very rich and diverse music the position of the performers is critical to the best understating and enjoyment of the recording. The same for some contemporary music - ask Al. M on this aspect, he will be able to say it much better than me. Or for example, theatrical music - I have listened to a few of the Falla recordings on Harmonia Mundi last weekend and they need real drama - they are usually played in a small theatre, not in a large hall.