I have seriously thought about reporting Alfred on eBay as recommended by eBay customer service, but the potential fallout is that everyone will lose. I really do not want to be the person responsible for impacting other people losing money on their orders or impacting Alfred's livelihood.
I will give it until the end of the month after that I am walking away from the tonearm and financial loss. It's getting stressful. This is supposed to be a hobby to help you relax and not add stress
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This episode has definitely taught me a lesson. If the item is not in stock and ready to be shipped move on and look for an alternate solution regardless of the potential cost or it being a bit inferior.
Edit: Is anyone else having issues with eBay saying something went wrong while trying to send a message to Alfred?