Unfortunately, the old adage about a few bad apples seems to apply.
I understand that it takes time to properly set up a demonstration in store, but that's all part of being an audio retailer. In fairness, I think very few dealers do charge for demonstrations, and fewer still are in a position to charge for an installation and stay in business, but the concept tarnishes even those who would never consider such an idea.
Also, I think most people would not have a problem with a paying for the dealer's time and mileage for home installation. However, the few that consider dealers can provide repeated no-cost home demonstrations of products they have no intention of buying have spoiled this for the majority.
While there is no 'fair use' charter between dealer and client, it would be best if everyone behaved as if there were such a thing. That way, we'd get no more instances of:
- Customers traveling miles to visit a dealer to hear a specific device, only to find the dealer doesn't stock that device and tries to sell them something else
- Dealers loaning equipment on home demonstration, only to find it had been used in an underwater knife fight during the loan period
- Customers finding their demonstration wasn't booked, and then being told it was their fault
- Dealers being asked to obtain a specific 'flavour of the month' product, only to have the person listen to it for a morning, say 'meh!' and demand a full refund
- Customers being sold returned or demonstration stock as new
- Dealers spending a day installing and fine-tuning a system, and being treated like a pizza delivery guy. At the very least, if the guy has spent six hours in your home and he asks to use the rest-room, don't direct him to the gas station five miles away
This is a very interesting thread and one that has a lot of relevance in the internet world we live in today. I personally don't ask people to do anything for me if I don't have intentions of paying for it or buying it. This is probably the case for the great majority but it is not the case for all. The "showrooming" tactic, looking at q product in one place to buy it cheaper on the net is not a new thing and has negatively affected many retailers. Retail is dying and that is a fact.
Audiogon, Ebay, Amazon etc are doing good and bad.
I always suggest that if you want to buy gear and you are the type to buy and change you need to establish a relationship with someone who will help you do that. Everyone has the right to earn a living and I do not believe that most understand the economics of the Audio business. Costs for running a business have skyrocketed and margins have gone down. This is true guys not made up.
Lets examine a few of these examples.
Going into a store that has the equipment on display to hear- I think this is normal and obvious however the client should be upfront about his intentions. I have played many things for people that would never buy it but they were honest and nice about it.
Wanting to borrow items for home audition- Taking it home yourself and returning it in a predetermined time frame the same way you got it-
Wanting a home audition of speakers- this is tricky since an example like the Wilson XLF one requires a whole crew to deliver assemble and set up this item- I would think I would have to pay something substantial for that privilege if I could find someone to actually do that for me.
IMHO opinion that is a huge favor to ask anyone particularly if you don't have a serious relationship with them. I don't think I am wrong here.
IMHO it is best to introduce yourself where you would like to do business and truly explain your intentions to get the best treatment.
My business partner and I just went through all of this buying cars and went to a few dealers before we decided where to buy. It wasn't about the price or the nearest place it was about who treated us the way we wanted to be treated and wanted to earn our business.
I said before everyone needs to earn a living and what i your hobby is there way to feed their families and pay their bills.
I believe being honest and respectful goes a long way to making everyone happy.
One last thing . I gave Priaptor everything to have in his home to try for many years and he never paid a cent upfront however he has also earned this by the way he has always been honest and real about what his plans were.