I have observed that women can read men like an open book while we don't have a clue to what's going on in a woman's mind. They can also communicate to each other without talking. We'll never figure them out. Face it guys, we're just too dense. When they want to tell us something we have to let it come in its own good time. Here's an example.
Are you going anywhere today?
Well I wasn't planning on going anywhere in particular
If you were would you be going on I287?
Hmmm, I hadn't....
If you went on I 287 would it be north or south?
????? (Wait for it)
Would you be going near Costco in Bridgewater?
Well I hadn't....
If you go to Costco could I have a ride?
Sure. Why didn't you just ask me if I'd drive you to Costco because you don't feel like driving yourself?
I was afraid if I asked you that way you'd say no.
(That's a true account )
Okay, here's another that can happen to any man at any time;
Are you mad at me?
You haven't spoken to me in four days, does that mean you're mad about something?
If you're angry at me about something what is it? (he asked quizically)
WELL! If you don't know...I'm not going to tell you!
There's no winning for us, our minds don't work the same way. Resign yourself to it.
