The elephant in the room is that information is largely ubiquitous with the internet and forums such as these. Whether it be user impressions on a forum or reaching out to a real user for their experience- information is largely available and many times out paces whatever a biased retailer is prepared to offer.
The real retail model is flawed in this hobby. Most of the time the retailer does not really have what you want to listen to and if they do , its hooked up in such a way that you could never triangulate performance. In home auditions may exist but - even those are limited and there is talk of paying for those as you go as well.
Assembling a audio system is a systematic process of synergy . You're not buying a fridge or even a Honda Civic that everyone is the same that comes off the line and you use in absence of ancillary equipment. With an audio "system" you have your room, your tastes, your cables and your remaining equipment when you make a purchase. Dealer's experience IMO is variable, could be limited and probably is biased.
If you educate yourself enough and immerse yourself with the right crowd you will often know more about the product you want to buy than the dealer.
In order to make judgements on equipment you have to go beyond the magazines and the dealer showrooms. Most of the time in this hobby you have to try- buy and sell. The traditional channel makes this practice possible but not very affordable. Once you are around a bit you figure out how to approach this.
Everyone deserves to make a living and get paid for what they do, however, what they know, what they really have may not be enough for me to pay full retail.
How many here have a channel that bypasses the real brick and mortar experience to get what you want?
Great post.
My last purchase from a brick and mortar store was a few years ago. I got both the Octave amp (6 years ago) and preamp (5 years ago) from them after extensive auditions at home and am still fully satisfied. Yet while I also got my still beloved JL Audio subwoofers from them, to your point I already knew more about these from a friend than they could convey.
Since then everything was direct:
ZenWave power and signal cables (from WBF member DaveC), all after extensive home audition. All to full satisfaction. Also purchased a 6-way Furutech power distributor from him an authorized dealer, but not brick-and-mortar dealer.
Schiit Yggdrasil DAC, based on reviews and 15-day refund -- ok, that was 7 years ago. But newer upgrades to the DAC after auditioning friend's versions. As good or better than other DACs multiple the price; Big-shot DACs in general are overpriced. No reason to buy the super most expensive ones unless you want SOTA. The best system I have heard also featured an only $2,700 DAC:
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Continuing:
Mutec reclocker, based on industry reputation and reviews, very happy with it. Only purchase not direct from manufacturer (next the Furutech power distributor), but through Sweetwater, who are not a brick-and-mortar dealer either.
PranaFidelity Dhyana speakers, based on fantastic sound at show (T.H.E. Show 2023) where I could intensely audition over one and a half days, critically going through all my playlist. Direct purchase from manufacturer (who exhibited at the show himself).
ASC Isothermal TubeTraps, upgrade from my regular TubeTraps based on web info and phone call/emails to factory. Also ASC SoundPlanks, based on hearing in friend's system and web info. Direct purchase from manufacturer.
So yeah, not much need to go through a brick-and-mortar dealer anymore on my side. As long as for the riskier items you get in-home audition and/or refund policy you're good without them.
Unless of course you want big-brand items that are heavy and bulky, such as speakers.