Brad, this is exactly what happened in Utah. I came with about a dozen of my LPs. That first evening David simply suggested I put on one of my records. We stayed up and listened to records for hours, quite late into the night on my East Coast time.
My mind went immediately to the jazz club, the chamber setting, and the symphony hall. I did not think about how these same records sounded on my system two days earlier. I was listening to an audio system, but I was hearing music. After seven days and four different systems, I realized I needed a complete shift in my approach.
First came the source, then the electronics, and finally the speakers. Each time I made a change I noticed the system sounded different and increasingly different from other audio systems with which I was familiar, but what I paid particular attention to was not relative sound but how these changes made my familiar LPs remind me more of what I hear from live music.
I used to compare things like extension, treble clarity, bass quality, soundstage, and scale between my system and friends systems while at the same time making references to my impressions of the way live music sounds to me. I now simply sit and enjoy the music and when I think about things consciously, as when I am setting up a cartridge, it’s about live music and not other stereo systems.
It’s not clear to me that this is about vintage versus modern, but more about the priorities of the listener and his goals for his system.