The claim that frames have nothing to do with ride comfort is easily defeated, which tire is faster is a more complicated issue
. On a road surface where speed is an absolute IMO with a bald tread and basically no tire spread, there is no beating a 700c x 23c tire inflated from 110-120 psi. Yes the pro peleton is going for fatter lower pressure tires Except for the most best riders they ride what the team issues. The team follows the manufacturers spec. and remember the sponsors goal is to develop a consumer product.
That said what I said initially stated is true. Narrower and higher inflated tires are faster. For most people fatter lower pressure tires are fast enough. The offer better traction and resistance to puncture. The good news is the market has a an excellent choice for whatever you4r needs and preferences are.
https://www.renehersecycles.com/12-myths-in-cycling-1-wider-tires-are-slower/
I'm a bit heavier- typically 195-200 pounds. All muscle I assure you
I started on 23s but blew them out all the time, went to 25s and got snake bites about once a week rather than twice. On 28s I've yet to flat. But I've also timed myself and even though the 28s
feel slower, when I timed them I found I was actually faster.
Bicycle traditions die really hard! So I'm not worried if I don't convince someone.
How whippy a frame is, is something different from ride quality, how rough a frame might be. You might want to look into the history of Bates, a British marquee. They figured out that the key to frame stiffness was not butting tubes at the ends, but butting them in the
middle. They had Reynolds develop a proprietary frame tubing from their 531 alloy, called 'Cantiflex'. Not only did they make some of the lightest frames available at the time but they were also the stiffest. In fact so stiff that if you ran sewups, you needed some flex to help ride quality so they also produced their famous Diandrant fork. This had two bends in it rather than one and did help a bit. I can tell you (I own a Bates) that their claims are correct. My Bates, equipped with a Sturmey Archer 4 speed IGH weighs in no more than 20 pounds. Its easily the stiffest frame I own (in order of appearance, my Guerciotti is the whippiest, but in a good way- its got positive spring; the 1964 Paramount is stiffer and only slightly heavier; the Anderson using Reynolds 953 tubing is lighter than the Guerciotti and is even stiffer and finally the Bates is lightest and stiffest of all- using 531 tubing!). But I can tame it simply by putting 28mm tires on it, or by running the sewups at a really low pressure, although I run the risk of rim damage if I do.
Did you look at that TY video I posted, by cyclingabout?