Unsolicited advice:
Don’t sell your house in Alabama until you’ve been in Seattle for a couple of years and the new “rhythm of your life” is something you’re comfortable dancing to.
We uprooted our lives to assist with child care, and after two years, and against my better judgement, we sold “the home place.”
Now, as child care is less necessary due to preschool and soon to come school activities displacing the need, a week doesn’t go by when I don’t think about home, friends, former haunts, and the perfect setup and setting we developed over many years. If I had it to do over, I’d try a quarterly rotation, keeping both “main” houses.
We love our family … but if you can afford it, don’t sell a longtime loved property in haste to pursue an adventure.
The one thing I got out of this move was a slightly better man cave and a significantly better system to fill it. Was that enough? Not for me. I have too many hobbies to be happy improving one while others languish.
Just sayin’ …