Ps i have a feeling a LAMM LL1.1 ML3 could certainly pull me over to the SET camp .
How ever all those tubes require a lot off maintenance i suppose .
If you're not familiar with using tubes, it might seem that way from just looking at the specs. Depends on what is meant by "a lot".
I have the ML2.2 monos and Lamm suggests replacing a single tube (6NP) in each amp once every two years to maintain top performance. You do need to set the bias for new 6C33Cs which is simple as there are adjustment ports and ports for a meter. Once set they are stable. For the ML3, Lamm reccommends replacing the GM-70 every 1-1.5 years.
My LL1.1 preamp (4 boxes) is pretty simple. It uses 6H30s in the control units and a 6X4 in the power supplies. The 6H30 which I also had in my ARC Ref components has proven to be very long lived.
I've not had tube issues for either units. Tube replacement is generally simple, or at least to me it is as I've had tubes in all my gear but for a couple early phono stages. The trick is to keep extra stock on hand.
When Vladimir designed his units, Russian tubes were somewhat unusual and Lamm still says they are the only source for a few pieces. That is no longer true and I've had no problems sourcing from around the globe. Lamm does do excellent testing and burn-in.
Both your choices are excellent, fwiw.