Glad you told them to F off. I’m originally from Philly so that’s actually a perfectly acceptable way to say good bye to someone. I do understand your points. As a consumer of course you understand that I want the best way to decide between A and B to be as simple and accurate as possible. Different stores, different electronics different set up philosophies makes it almost impossible to really understand the contribution of just the speaker to the sound I am hearing. Also I am relying on memory. As a hobbyist/consumer I love the idea of being able to hear 2-3 great speaker options in one place. I accept that the financial realities makes this difficult and even unwise in some cases but it also makes a truly informed decision by me more difficult.
This is a good example of where the interests of the consumer do not always align with the interests of the dealer. It is too bad, but I appreciate the economic and business realities. The hobbyist does what he can to navigate the choices and do what he thinks is best for him, and the dealer does the same. Likewise for the magazines and the forums.