Bob,
Looking at your post it seems that you have been talking mostly with unlucky and I think unhappy dealers.
---- Micro, 1. I said "a few of my". 2. What makes you say that they were "unlucky" and "unhappy"? ...Because they made and still make a very good living at it, plus they have a great sense of humor, and they are dead honest with me, or they wouldn't be part of my gang of audio dealers.
* "All", "vast majority"; yes, some' wrong with that Micro?
I was having dinner today with our larger high-end dealer/distributor in the country and we have debated the topic. Although he had one or two orders like that, they were exceptional. Most of the sales of expensive systems were to people who wanted the best, but were exigent customers looking for excellent sound quality. They did not put the goods in the truck - they installed them in the client houses and had to go through several tuning sections until the client was pleased. As they have a long tradition of good service and quality brands and clients trust them sometimes people do not ask for demos - they just tell them a few guidelines and accept their choice.
---- Good. ...Some rich people buy audio only on recommendations from their entourage (soi-disant expert audio friends).
And that is as fact.
...Even non-rich people.